Citibank Credit Card Complaint

Citibank Credit card department,

Balance transfer New York

My ex-wife made balance transfers to her individual accounts in excess of $5000.00 on - of my credit cards during the six month period before commencing an action for divorce based upon NY provision that the relationship was irretrievably broken for six months prior to filing the action. These amounts have been charged off on my credit reports and my credit is ruined. I am unable to refinance my property awarded me through NY equitable distribution as a result of these balance transfers. The bank involved says that she was an authorized user on the credit cards, and that I benefitted from the transfers. Does n't the bank involved require my notification before allowing such large transfers to another credit card or issuing a direct check to the authorized user?